Miriam and Elijah Glasses for a Virtual Seder

For any easy decorative Mirriam or Elijah glass, use a marker to draw draw on a plastic cup.

Decorating the Miriam and Elijah glasses for your seder table is just that easy!  Oil-Based Sharpies and a couple of wine glasses are really all you need to create these iconic glasses for your seder table at Passover.  Feel free to use our custom templates or even create your own look.  Make sure to have some q-tips and rubbing alcohol handy just in case, to erase any mistakes as you’re decorating. Also, leave the glass to cure for 24-48 hours before their use.  The Miriam and Elijah glasses are very easy to make – you might even want to make sure to have extra glasses on hand should you want to customize one for each guest joining your seder.

Young children can delight in creating these on plastic cups! Just follow the same directions with plastic cups instead of glasses.

Materials

  • Clear Wine Glass (white wine glass preferably)
  • Sharpie Oil-Based Markers (fine point) (these will also be used for DIY Seder Plate)
  • Rubbing Alcohol
  • Q-Tips (handy in removing excess paint)
  • Downloadable Images: Miriam & Elijah (also featured at bottom of this post)
  • Tape
  • Scissors
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Before you begin: Wipe down outside of glass with alcohol swab.

Step 1:

Download image here (link) and cut out along dotted lines. Wrap image around inside of cup so that image is facing out. Wipe down outside of glass with alcohol swab.

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Step 2:

Trace image with Oil Based Sharpie

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Step 3:

Go ahead and paint in your design on outside of glass – be creative! Leave 1” rim around outside glass unpainted. Remove design from inside of glass and slip under base of glass to paint.

Step 4:

Let paint dry 24-48 hours. These beautiful wine glasses should be washed only by hand.

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Enjoy your new handmade Miriam and Elijah glasses at your Passover Seder!

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STENCILS: (click on the graphics below to view larger)

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DIY Seder Plate for a Virtual Seder

For any easy DIY seder plate, you can use a pen to draw on a paper plate.

Six traditional items are arranged on the seder plate, which is the focal point of the Passover Table. These include Maror (Bitter Herbs), Charoset (Mortar), Karpas (a vegetable), Zeroah (Lamb Shank), Beitzah (hard boiled egg), Chazeret (more bitter herbs). Each item has a special place on the seder plate, and each has a special significance to the retelling of the story of the exodus from Egypt.

Typically, seder plates are round with room for the word or image “Pesach” in the middle. Using a rectangle seder plate, you can create a non-traditional and modern seder plate with a spot for each of the 6 items. This is so simple to do! Make sure you date the bottom of the plate so this timeless piece can be used and remembered for many years to come.

Materials:

  • Serving Platter: Rectangle Ceramic Plate can be purchased at any home store…we found ours at Target. Just make sure it is large enough to hold all the seder items and bowls if you wish. Use small bowls or espresso saucers.
  • Sharpie Oil-Based Markers (fine point) (these will also be used for Miriam and Elijah Glass Activity)
  • Image guides (see below)
DIY Seder Plate Materials

Step 1:  

Wipe down paintable area with alcohol pad.  Check out our templates here to use as a reference, or create or find your own pattern.

Step 2:

Paint words and or images on bowls/plates or directly on plate. Outline first with black oil sharpie and use alcohol swab with qtip to remove excess paint. Then use Sharpies to color in images and decorate seder plate with all the items that appear on the plate for your Passover seder.

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Step 3:

Let paint dry for 24-48 hours.

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Here’s another version we made with small plates that fit into a larger tray. Use your imagination when you choose your dishes to make your seder plate.

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TEMPLATES (click images below to view larger):

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Virtual Passover Craft: Create a Simple Placemat

During this time of social distancing people are looking for activities to stimulate their mind and touch their soul. Here is a quick craft that you can make to spruce up your virtual Passover Seder.

You can make a placemat by taking a piece of paper and using a pen or marker to decorate it is as you see fit. This is a great easy craft for people of all ages. If you have glue and glitter, paint or stickers you can use these to add extra flare to the placemats.

If you want to keep your placemats to use again, you can save them and laminate them at a later date.

Menu Ideas for a Virtual Passover Seder

With people self-isolating and trying to avoid unnecessarily leaving the house, getting the ingredients to cook for the Passover Seder can be difficult. We have put together a menu that allows you to enjoy Passover favorites without having to shop around for hard-to-find ingredients. We hope you enjoy and wish you a happy Passover.

For starters, it wouldn’t be a Seder without charoset. We recommend our Classic Ashkenazi Charoset.

Classic Ashkenazi Charoset

Next up is a hearty bowl of matzo ball soup. We have a recipe for delicious matzo balls.

Matzo Ball Soup

You can substitute vegetable oil for schmaltz. For the soup itself, you can use our soup recipe or use canned/box chicken broth with a bouillon cube or 2 added for extra flavor.

For a main course we suggest our Za’atar Roasted Chicken.

Za'atar Roast Chicken

If you don’t have za’atar you can substitute it for a blend of dried spices thyme, oregano, sesame seeds and salt.

We always like to end things off on a sweet note. For dessert try our Chocolate Covered Matzo.

Chocolate Covered Matzo

You can omit the caramel sauce and nuts if you want to. And, feel free to add any toppings you may have around your house; dried cranberries, raisins, or other dried fruit, sea salt or coconut.

A Journey Through Journaling 4-2-20

When I was on my 40 day bedrest in 2017, My daughter, Lucy, gave me a beautiful journal on my first day and encouraged me to write my daily thoughts. Lucy was so prescient. Writing in my journal really alleviated my anxieties, eased my mind, and soothed my soul.

It only took a few minutes each day. I kept the journal by my bedside and it made me smile.

I would encourage you to use this Life in the Pause time to start, or renew, a practice of writing in a journal, even for 5-10 minutes, just to find some quiet time for yourself to think and feel and express yourself.

  • Have you ever written in a journal?
  • Did you find it helpful?
  • If you have not tried before, would you please try to write one journal entry this weekend?

Regards,

Andy

Take a Virtual Tour of Israel

During this time of social isolation and quarantine, synagogues are not holding regular services. People have been gathering to worship and celebrate together for millennia, not being able to do so can be a jarring and disconnecting experience. If you are looking for a way to connect to your faith and heritage, consider taking a trip to Israel…not literally, but virtually! Through live cameras and virtual tours, you can visit Israel from the comfort of your own home.

There is no landmark more sacred to Jews than the Western Wall (or Kotel). Visiting and praying there is an incredibly moving experience. Thanks to a variety of live camera feeds you can experience the profoundness of the Kotel anywhere.

The Western Wall Heritage Foundation has three different live cameras of the Kotel, you can find them here.

Aish HaTorah also has a live camera feed at the Western Wall, you can find it here.

EarthCam has a live feed of the Western Wall and feeds from other parts of Israel as well. These feeds are available here.

3d Israel has panoramic image tours of a variety of locations across Israel. You can see them here.

Israel 21C created a series of video postcards from different regions across Israel. They allow you to take a virtual tour around the country. You can find the video postcards here.

A variety of museums throughout Israel are putting up virtual tours of exhibits, allowing people to experience them without going in person. Participating museums include the Israel Museum and the Tel Aviv Museum of Art. You can find a list of virtual museum tours here.

Spring Cleaning 4/1/20

As we near spring during these times, the concept of “Spring Cleaning” may take on even more meaning.

We are all housebound and have more time in our home to Spring Clean.

We may have more people in the house (kids home from college, etc.) who are also home to participate?

We may have a new perspective to look at our environment and objects?

  • What are your thoughts on Spring Cleaning in these days?
  • Have you found an opportunity to look at your physical surroundings in a different way?
  • Have you looked inside yourself in a different way?
  • Is there Spring Cleaning of your house, your home, and your inner self that you may be interested in exploring during these days of awe?

Here is a blog that I wrote about Spring Cleaning for Breaking Matzo as we prepare for Passover.

Regards,

Andy

Spectacular Synagogues: The Dohány Street Synagogue in Hungary

The Dohány Street Synagogue

Did you know that The Dohány Street Synagogue is one the of largest synagogues in the world? Did you know that NYC’s Central Synagogue was built to replicate the design of The Dohány Street Synagogue in Hungary?

Throughout the world, there are a variety of synagogues with unique, impressive, and incredible features. Such synagogues include the Mikve Israel Emanuel Synagogue on the island of Curaçao and the Great Synagogue of Rome. I’d like to talk about another magnificent synagogue still operating today: The Dohány Street Synagogue in Budapest. The building itself is an architectural feat, but equally important is its history.

Dohány Street Synagogue, is also known as The Great Synagogue, the Tabakgasse Synagogue, and the Tabac-Schul. It is one of the largest synagogues in the world and is the largest in Europe. The synagogue can hold nearly 3,000 people at a time. Its most iconic feature are two large towers each topped with a large onion dome.

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Dohány Street Synagogue’s Domed Towers

The Jewish community of the city of Pest began construction on the synagogue in 1854. It was built in the Moorish-Revival style according to plans drafted by the architect Ludwig Förster. On September 6th, 1859 the synagogue was consecrated. Famed composer and musician Franz Liszt played the organ during the ceremony. In 1873 the cities of Buda, Óbuda and Pest merged to form the current city of Budapest. The synagogue served as a focal point for Judaism in the newly created city.

On February 3rd of 1939 the far-right Hungarian nationalist Arrow Cross Party bombed the synagogue. Hungary was part of the axis powers during World War ll, passing a variety of anti-Jewish laws inspired by the Germans. However, as the war rolled on the Germans keep demanding more from their Hungarian allies.

On March 23rd, 1944 the Germans invaded Hungary and installed a pro-German anti-Semitic government. During this period the Jewish population of Budapest was forced into a Ghetto abutting the synagogue. The Dohány Street Synagogue itself was claimed by the Nazis under Adolph Eichmann. The synagogue served a variety of war time purposes including being used as a radio base and stable. It was also used as a central point from which thousands of Jews were gathered to be taken to concentration camps. Nearly half a million Hungarian Jews were deported to concentration camps, approximately 90% of them were immediately sent to Auschwitz.

On December 26th, 1944 the Soviet Union’s forces surrounded Budapest and began a 50-day siege. During this battle the synagogue suffered heavy damage from allied air raids. On February 13th, 1945 the city of Budapest surrendered.

In the wake of World War ll the Soviet Union occupied Hungary. Under Soviet stewardship a communist regime was put into place. Hungary would remain under communist rule until the foundation of the Third Republic in 1989. During this time the Jewish community of Budapest began worshipping in the Dohány Street Synagogue again, though the damage to the building was not repaired.

The first free elections were held in 1990 and that same year the Soviet Union withdrew all of the 100,000 troops still stationed there. Under the new government, efforts to repair and restore the synagogue began. The project was funded by both the Hungarian government and private donors. The renovation of the synagogue was completed in 1998. Services are still held in the synagogue today. Furthermore, it has become a major tourist attraction for Jews and non-Jews alike.

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Dohány Street Synagogue Interior

 Over time additional related structures were built around the temple, forming a synagogue complex. The Hungarian Jewish Museums and Archives was built in 1930 where famed author and father of Zionism Theodor Herzl lived. It holds a wide range of Jewish artifacts and written documents. In 1931 an additional smaller temple was constructed. It was named the heroes’ temple in honor of Jewish Hungarians who died fighting during World War l. A Jewish cemetery was constructed next to the synagogue in 1944. The cemetery was built to house those that died of hunger and cold in the ghetto. Finally, there is the Raoul Wallenberg Holocaust Memorial Park which has a variety of monuments including one honoring the over 400,000 Hungarians Jews that died during the holocaust.

The history of the Dohány Street Synagogue is a reminder that no matter how dark things get, light will always triumph. The synagogue was built as a place of faith and joy. There were times when tragedy and terror took hold, but today it a place of joy once more, stronger than it ever was before.

Fun Fact: Dohány is the Hungarian word for tobacco.

Fun Fact: The Dohány Street Synagogue’s reopening ceremony in 1996 was a huge affair attended by former Israeli prime minister Yitzhak Shamir and the sitting Hungarian president. You can read about the grand reopening here.

Further Reading:

Photos of the Dohány Street Synagogue throughout its history can be found here.

You can read more about the history of Hungarian Jews during World War ll here.

Theodor Herzl was a journalist and playwright who is considered the founding father of modern Zionism. He was born in the city of Pest. You can read more about him here.

Raoul Wallenberg was a Swedish diplomat who worked to save the lives of tens of thousands of Jews living in Nazi occupied Hungary. You can read more about his life here.

What is the True Meaning of a Virtual “Bar” or “Bat Mitzvah”?

In times of social isolation it can be a heartening activity to reflect on culture and tradition. Like other religions and cultures throughout the world, Judaism has developed a variety of rituals to mark important life cycle moments.

One of the most well-known of these rites is the bar or bat mitzvah.

Technically speaking, however, to be a bar (male) or bat (female) mitzvah means one is responsible for the performance of the mitzvot, “commandments.” According to tradition, when children enter puberty they are held accountable for their actions. A Jewish boy becomes a bar mitzvah at age 13 and a girl at 12 years old—with or without a service or celebration (some girls do not have their celebrations until the age of 13).

The initiation ceremony is what is commonly referred to as the bar or bat mitzvah. This usually involves a communal prayer service (often, but not always, on Shabbat) at which the young person may do one or more of the following:

  • Be counted in the minyan (prayer quorum of 10 Jewish adults);
  • Recite the blessing before and after the reading of a section of the Torah (this honor is known as an aliyah);
  • Chant a selection from the weekly Torah portion (parashah) and/or prophetic reading (haftarah) and its accompanying blessings; and,
  • Offer a sermon or teaching connected to the parashah or haftarah readings and the experience of becoming a bar or bat mitzvah.

Following the service, there is typically a festive meal and many families also host parties.

It is important to remember that while the bar or bat mitzvah service and celebration can be very powerful — and fun — experiences, these events should be viewed as part of a process in which the young person and his/her family explores what it means to be a Jewish adult, and the opportunities and responsibilities that come with it. This is a subject we hope the bar or bat mitzvah continues to actively explore for many years to come.

Please share this with your bar/bat mitzvah child…
“Bar” means “male” and “bat” means “female”. “Mitzvah” means one is responsible for performing the “mitzvot” or “commandments.” After your bar/bat mitzvah you will be seen as an adult, responsible for all of your actions.

How to Have the Virtual Bar/Bat Mitzvah You Want

In August of 2017 I was asked to share my thoughts on Breaking Matzo and throwing a magical, meaningful and memorable bar/bat mitzvah. Here is what I had to say:

Jewish home holidays have been an incredible passion of mine. I loved Passover. I loved Sukkot. With my family, we actively celebrated the holidays, and we cooked all the time. Breaking Matzo started with my children: At Passover, I would write a custom Haggadah every year.

Now with the site expanding to offer bar and bat mitzvah insights, I hope to make these rites of passage magical, meaningful and memorable, not morose, morbid or maddening.

If you’re overwhelmed with planning, costs, interpersonal woes, family dynamics or squabbling with your child over visions for the event, remember, it:

  • should stimulate the mind
  • touch the heart
  • uplift the soul.

The most important thing is to make sure it’s personally significant. I had an extravagant bar mitzvah, but unusual. My parents moved our cars out of our two-car garage, swept it and decorated it. The kids’ party was downstairs in the basement. My uncle, who was a rabbi in Israel, made freshly baked challah. It was sweet and simple.

So, how can you have a bar or bat mitzvah that’s significant, not stressful?

Step one: Stimulate the mind. This involves understanding the history of the bar or bat mitzvah.

Step two: Touch the heart. The heart is the Torah. Connect with text that has been around for thousands of years, but make it meaningful to you. Find something in your heart that connects with the words on the page. If you can do that, you teach the congregation

Step three, and perhaps the most important: Uplift the soul. Remember, this is about your child’s journey, not yours, he says.

Many parents interfere too much and are too heavy-handed. It’s about the kid. Remember what matters the most. Parents might think it’s their social event and overlook the interest of the kid. Ask, ‘What’s good for my child? How can I help them go from being a Jewish child to a Jewish young adult?’

If you’re still overwhelmed with logistical woes or wondering whether Aunt Debby will cause a scene on the dance floor because the event wasn’t to her liking, take a pause.

Close your eyes, go to a quiet place and try to imagine the feeling that you would like your son or daughter to have at the end of the day. The bar or bat mitzvah is about the beauty of unique expression. If your kid wants to do something unique, you should be so proud that he or she wants to do something meaningful. You don’t want them to just follow the course.

You can read the full article of my interview here.